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Top Tips

Ideas, advice and inspiration for your big day

Vows & Reading

Personal touches

  • Make your ceremony as personal as possible and include your friends and family. For instance if your dad walks you down the aisle, perhaps your mum would like to give a reading? Or how about your new mother or father-in-law?

Tip supplied by:
Wedding Ideas' writer Sabrina Atherton
www.weddingideasmagazine.co.uk



Writing your own vows

If you don't know where to start, write each other a letter detailing why you are so happy to be getting married. Don't think about the phrasing, just write from the heart and see what themes emerge.Try to focus on the future and how you will grow together and bring in the themes of support, sharing and companionship as well as love and fidelity.
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Image: Big Day Photography
Civil ceremonies can take place any time between 8am and 6pm, so break with tradition and pick an unusual time slot. A candlelit evening wedding followed by an elegant cocktail reception would be the last word in sophistication. Or get married first thing and invite your friends to join you for brekkie afterwards!

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Include special pictures of you both on the order of service, complete with captions.

Add a memorable touch to your ceremony that you and your groom can do together, such as lighting a candle.

Ask one of your readers to write a short poem to read on the day.

Memorable moments

Have photos of you and your family as you enter the room. Perhaps you could have pictures of both of your parents' wedding day, or pictures of you and the groom as children.

Music & Recitals

Sweet, sweet music

Are any of your friends singers? Ask them to sing 'your song' during the service.

Swap the traditional wedding march for a piece of music meaningful to you both.

Play a soundtrack to your romance by using songs special to you both for walking up and down the aisle and during the ceremony.

Write a song and have it sung during the ceremony.

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Try to pick something familiar and unchallenging for your first hymn as most people's voices take time to warm up. If your guests don't know the words or the music, they may also end up miming instead of joining in and that will leave you with a flat atmosphere.

Flowers & Bouquets

Choosing your bouquet

Make sure your bouquet compliments your dress, your personality, that you love the flowers that you are having and remember your bouquet will be seen on your wedding photos forever.

Tip supplied by:
Wendy Louise Sampson

Flowers*

Natural inspirations

When deciding which roses to choose for your bridal flowers, think about how the flower will open. Some of the most romantic bouquets are those where the beauty of the rose is displayed in many different stages of development, from buds through to fully open blooms.
Tips Supplied by:
Laura Stephenson for David Austin Roses
Laura Stephenson, Fl ower Expert

Arrive & Depart in Style

Try to have confirmed your transport to and from the wedding at least one month before the day. For a money saving solution, if you have a friend or relative who owns a retro, classic or vintage car, consider asking them if they would like to drive you. They may even enjoy the responsibility.

If you've always dreamed of arriving by helicopter, having a chocolate fountain or a massive firework display at your wedding, have it! Choose one must-have item and do everything you can to have it, even if you have to cut back in other areas. After all this is the only time you'll be able to have it!

W is for walking. Lead a procession through the streets and show off that dress of yours
E is for an eco friendly bike. Just don't catch your dress in the wheels...
D is for Del Boy's three-wheeler van - a must for Only Fools and Horses fans.
D is for drama - arriving in a classic Roll's Royce
I is for an ice-cream van to deliver you to your venue. But only if you're sweet enough...
N is for a nifty camper van. If it was good enough for Tess and Vernon, it's good enough for you...
G is for gondola. Bring a bit of Venice to your wedding but make sure there's some water close to your venue first

Tip:
www.youandyourwedding.co.uk


One of the most nervous parts your big day will be your journey to the ceremony. If you have always fantasised of a fairy tale wedding with a horse and carriage then this is your opportunity to do it! A stunning white carriage with two picturesque white horses will definitely make you look and feel like Cinderella.


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Go Green!

Minimise your carbon footprint by asking your guests to share lifts to the wedding. If the ceremony and reception are at the same venue, forgo the fancy bridal car and rent a tandem bicycle instead.
Tip supplied by:
Emma Wright, Editor Cape

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